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Leigh Horne's avatar

And do you understand, Stuart, the broader than political implications of what you write? Pardon me for saying this, but after reading post after post from ex-Republican operatives for months on end, I am starting to wonder if any of you have penetrated to the bone, the heart, the soul--the incredibly critical nature of the times we're in. Throughout history, black human beings, brown human beings, Asian human beings, non-heterosexual human beings, and most pervasively of all, female human beings of all races have lived with a boot on their necks. Oh to be sure sometimes it was a well-polished and soft-soled boot, but it served to keep us, even if ever so 'gently,' in our place and at the service of males (here in the US and Europe, white males). I'll just close with this vignette: There is a young woman, of perhaps high school or college age. She is bright, articulate, well-read, clever and ambitious. And she is told in any number of ways that despite the wide-ranging interests typically held by people of that sort, she will never be successful unless she focuses her hopes and dreams on 'catching' a man, along with whatever sort of second tier jobs she might aspire to. A man, she's been taught, is a prize, a brass ring, proof of her desirability and social acceptability--the gold medal of a personal Olympics. So she marries young and for the rest of her life contorts herself into any number of uncomfortable clothes, domestic responsibilities, parenting responsibilities and responsibilities to support and please 'her man' (or else). She has a part time job she hopes to parlay into something with more scope once the kids are grown. And she fears she will be abandoned for a more sexually appealing, younger version of herself before she gets the chance to do so. And this is the story of a nice, conventional middle class woman, which is many times better than that of those born into the working class. Would you, could you, accept such a life (a common, common life, and not one of 'slavery,' exactly) for yourself or your sons?

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Maxine Hunter's avatar

Thanks for posting this. I read "It Was All a Lie" when I first discovered the Lincoln Project and Stuart Stevens. I immediately got the book on inter-library loan. Whew I couldn't put it down. Opened my eyes to not only "the southern strategy" but also the thoughtfulness and insight into the pollical world that we now have. In the book, what struck me and has stuck with me, was how Stuart pointed out the use of "words" which cloaked the meaning of what was really meant. I suggest that if you haven't read this book---find a copy and read it.

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